What is plain and simple must be indicated clearly and several times in the world of adoption.
I said the following in the affirmative to prove how ridiculous they sound in writing, they are therefore the adoption lies "us" like to think.
1 Imagine that your adopted child is somehow biologically about you, to protect your own fragile ego.
2 Make seem that adoptive families are the same as the biological families.
3 Deny your adopted child race, culture and heritage.
4 Deny their desire and need for exposure to people of their race, culture and the heritage.
5 Deny the desire of your adopted son/daughter for their identity of birth and birth family.
6 Place the desires of the AP and their financial ability to buy a child as the priority, rather than right of an adopted child to remain with their biological family and parents, in the maintenance of their country, culture and language in their original identity.
7 Family preservation should be the last priority whenever possible, and adoption agencies should respond to the demand of infertility and desires and the AP religious reasons as their main priority in place.
This seems ridiculous in writing. We did state them aloud because it sounds terribly selfish, needy, financially driven and just damn badly, but for decades and it is clear that the war is always, the society lives in large part by this unspoken belief system in the thought of their adoption. Different families have different levels of these hidden messages played, but adult adoptees are expressed in this which is equivalent to a massive refusal, claiming mass and mass of lying. Intentional or unintentional, it is a life experience recurring since hundreds of now grown to adult adoptees. As a society, we have been conditioned to believe these myths and is found in various forms and legalistic.
It reflects the power of the lobby of the adoption has been creating the lies of adoption that we love.
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